A list of patterns found in difficult relationships.
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This site offers general educational information, not a diagnosis or medical, mental-health, legal, or professional advice. Every relationship and situation is different. If you are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services or a qualified crisis resource.
Call your local emergency number. In the United States, you can also contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.